Mohammad and His Family ...
Three of Our Newest Canadians
by Tyler OLSEN, Abbotsford News
The words that arrived on his phone would forever alter
the lives of Mohammad Amostafa, his wife Heba, and infant daughter Jana.
One day last November, Mohammad received a seemingly
random text message. A United Nations official had opened his family’s file and
put them on track to go to Canada – destination, Abbotsford.
Since fleeing the escalating Syrian civil war, Mohammad
(28) had been living in limbo for years. Like millions of his countrymen and
women, his previously normal life had been shattered by an evolving conflict
that saw a small country torn to shreds by warring factions.
Engaged, but not yet married to Heba, Mohammad had been
just two courses shy of his economics degree when he left his country behind in
2012. His city under bombardment and
communication systems out, Mohammad passed through 10 checkpoints – each one
with the possibility that the military would drag him out of his car on a whim,
or because he shared a name with someone else.
“By the time we reached the airport, it was like a
miracle,” he said through an interpreter.
He lived for more than a year with his brother in the
United Arab Emirates but, unable to obtain permanent residency, he moved to
Jordan along with his parents and hundreds of thousands of other displaced
Syrians.
He would later be joined there by Heba. In different
times, they would have gotten married in a three-day ceremony and party in the
large backyard of Mohammad’s family home. Instead, their two-hour wedding was
held in a hotel in Jordan in the spring of 2014. While Mohammad’s family was
prominent, only Heba’s sister was able to attend.
Interviewed and registered as refugees in Jordan,
Mohammad and Heba had no homeland or long-term prospects. Unable to complete
their degrees or find decent work, they lived in a small apartment for more
than a year as the war in Syria dragged on. Into this stasis, their daughter
Jana was born last April.
As she was taking her first breaths, hundreds of
thousands of other refugees were on the move, desperate to escape their
homeland, and the images that documented their flight last year would stir the
world to act.
In Canada, pressure was growing on the government while,
at the same time, local groups were organizing to see how they could help.
October’s federal election saw the Liberals sweep into
power, bringing with them a promise to bring tens of thousands of refugees to
Canada. Smaller groups were also mobilizing, including the Abbotsford
Interfaith Movement, a group of men and women from a range of faiths teaming up
to pay for 60 per cent of the costs of a refugee family.
A month later, Mohammad received the text message that
notified him that he had been placed on track to move to Canada with his young
family. After subsequent interviews, he would later meet a Canadian whom he
described as very nice and who gave him the news that his application had been
approved.
“It was a relief. I was happy that I was going to change
my situation, because I was going to change my life.”
His parents were supportive, even if it meant him flying
around the globe.
“It’s a mixed feeling. They were sad I was going to
leave, but happy for my new future.”
Getting to Canada wasn’t easy. After an aborted phone
call on Jan. 25 promised a flight three days later, a promised follow-up with
more details never materialized. On Jan. 27, still with no information,
Mohammad drove hours to Amman, the Jordanian capital, to seek some clarity.
There, he got an answer. His flight would depart in a
little more than 12 hours.
Mohammad raced back to his apartment, where he had just
six hours to pack up some possessions, say goodbye, and get ready to move to a
new country.
“It’s impossible,” Heba said, when Mohammad explained
their impending departure.
But the next day, the family boarded a plane to Canada.
More than 24 hours later, after stops in Montreal and Toronto, they arrived at
Vancouver International Airport to the surprise that they were privately
sponsored, with a large group of people working to ease their transition.
At the airport, nine people stood eagerly waiting for the
family’s arrival, and bearing a sign with their names spelled out in both
Arabic and English. The first nights after their arrival were spent with the
family of Lynn Gamache, a member of the interfaith group. By the time Mohammad
spoke to The News a week later, the group had already helped his family move
into a furnished apartment in central Abbotsford.
Since arriving in Canada, everything has gone according
to plan, he said.
“When I decided to migrate to Canada, it was my decision
to change my life. It’s right. It’s different for me and my family. There are
some differences in the house, the lifestyle, but my plan was to change my
life.”
Mohammad has lived away from his Syrian hometown many
times in his life, and although the distance between Daraa and Abbotsford may
be farther than he’s ever experienced, he finally has a chance to build a new
home. Just a week into that new life, as he scans a news story about dozens of
other refugees bound for Abbotsford, he is already comfortable enough in his
new country to consider offering his own unique help to the Syrians following
in his footsteps.
“I’m happy because I have a new future in front of me.”
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Mohammad Amostafa and baby Jana - home, at last. |